Robin, welcome!!
I am so glad you found the forum, and wish your family all the best on WB!
My family (3) is down about 125 lbs. If we had a goal weight (we don't, because that just causes stress...), I would say we are 3/4 of the way there. As long as the scale is going vaguely down, we are happy.
I hope you will soon realize that you can have that band removed...you were eating too much, just too much poison in the form of wheat!
Please read my post to Effy, as these strategies may help, especially with DH and DS!
To your health!